Whether you like it or not, believe it or not, most women if not all, wish their men knew a little bit of the tricks about what gives them satisfaction in bed.
But studies have shown that in this part of the world, that women dare not ask such things of their men, else, they’ll be understood out of context, and this may lead to great problems maritaly. Hence, most (God-fearing) women pass through their active years, not enjoying their sex-life. Those who aren’t as ‘God-fearing’ often go for extra-marital affairs to satisfy their sexual ecstacy. So let’s be clear
However, this write-up is meant to help couples, and its not in anyway meant to promote immorality.
In this article, I’m going to be outrightly open and real in mentioning and highlighting the top 5 Things all women secretly want when having SE.X with their men. I hope you’ll not only find it useful, but make use of it and strengthen your sex life.
Are you ready?
Here We Go!
Every Woman Loves To Be Dominated
Even if you’re with a big-mouthed, bigger-balls-than-yours sort of woman who puts her independence before any other aspect in her life, trust me, she still wants you to take charge in the bedroom. At least sometimes anyway. Unfortunately, many men are a bit afraid to do so for fear of coming across as ’rapey’
The trick here is to start slow. Don’t pull out the whips and chains before you’ve tried a simple playing around with ’looser’ restraints. It’s never a good idea to bark orders at her or call her ’names’ right from the start. The transition might be a little too drastic to cope with and you don’t want to risk putting her off.
Quick tip: Be commanding but sensitive to her responses. The balance will have her begging for more.
They Love Light Spanking
I say ‘light’ in the hopes that we don’t get branded as an sex-promoting site. But really, a reasonable amount of women like it as rough as you can give it to them. But don’t go there unless you’ve worked your way up or you might get more than a playful punch in your face.
Before you get too excited about ‘smacking your woman up,’ start light. Despite the fact that your mothers have brought you up to be more ‘gentleman-like’ than this,(just like me) know that it’s fantastic foreplay. It can feel amazing for both of you and women in particular tend to claim that that’s the kind of roughing up that sends tingles to all the right places. Quick tip: Though we promise you they love it, most feel to embarrassed to ask for it for fear of how it sounds. It’s up to you to break this barrier. Also, try and refrain from causing bruising or injury of any sort!
The ‘Dirty Talk’
This is a very grey area and once again, if you jump the gun, you could find yourself out of a great session between the sheets, as well as a ‘turned-off’ woman! But let’s not make any bones about it–women love dirty talk. And most men/husbands (in their self-righteousness) almost never give it to their wives. You become the first in her life to provide her with this secret sensual desire and chances are, she’s never going to let you go!
The reason is simple. Women are imaginative, vocal creatures. And they don’t want to hear your flowery sweet nothings whispered into their ears–many want you to be downright twisted. Be very basic about it, ask her if she likes what you’re doing, what her fantasies are etc. and gauge her responses before you march on like a good soldier. Heavier, quicker breathing are sure fire signs that she wants more but if she turns away from you or stiffens up a bit, Mr Man ‘stop right there’.
Quick tip: This one really could go either way, so tread carefully!
Yes, i know i said they want you to take charge but haven’t you learned anything about women? –they want it all! Not that there’s anything wrong with changing things up in the bedroom every once in a while and adding in some new heat. We already know that a surprising majority of men seriously dig ‘the cowgirl’ or ‘girl on top’ position and this is the best way to make her feel as though she’s in control of what’s going on.
Let her be in charge and more importantly, make her feel as though she’s in charge. Be responsive too, let her know that what she’s doing is really working for you, dig your fingers into her back let her have her way with you. Win-win situation for both parties involved? We certainly think so.
Quick tip: Once she’s had a fair amount of time taking the reigns, switch it up to dominate her without warning. The sudden transition will leave her hot and heavy for you.
Kiss Her During the Act
A surprisingly large number of women complain that men tend to get lost in their own world while making love, entirely ignoring them and making no effort whatsoever to kiss while still engaging in se.x. Women are emotional (surprise surprise) and as much as this article has told you they’d like to be bruised and beaten (lightly of course) it’s all about maintaining the perfect balance.
Everything comes in pairs and it would be nice if every once in a while, you could show her you’re making an effort to please her between the sheets–both physically and emotionally.
Take these few tips, arm yourself with the information provided, put it to practice, and watch how drastically your boring sex life will blossom.
Keep it Holy!
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